Author Archives: Pamela Vang

Sometimes I hate being a consultant. I write killer proposals but what happens is … your ideas get stolen or gifted to someone else. I can’t begin to tell you how many proposals I wrote, and how many people have used my ideas … the government being one of them. Sometimes I wonder if IContinue reading “Ideas Ideas Ideas”

You know, people often say, saying goodbye is the hardest thing to do… but I honestly think, sometimes, it’s not being able to say goodbye. When a loved one leaves you, most people, write them a letter of things they had wish they would have said to them when they were living. When I lostContinue reading “Not Being Able To Say Goodbye”

Made me cry… and it hit home. Thought I would share it. Darn you NCIS. I am bawling. “When I dieGive what’s left of me awayTo childrenAnd old men that wait to die. And if you need to cry,Cry for your brotherWalking the street beside youAnd when you need me,Put your armsAround anyoneAnd give toContinue reading “Poem for Those When I Die..”

My goal is still to have an orphanage and impact 10,000 people! Alas because I feel I am still a bit far from achieving this goal, what I decided to do this year instead, was to gift a family some Christmas gifts. This year is hard on my family but I always feel, as badContinue reading “Adopt a Family”

I once read that, goals, aren’t ever to be achieved. They are meant to be milestones. It was such an interesting concept to me because I have always wondered if I’ve been setting such small goals for myself. I wanted to become an executive director by the time I was 30. I was a yearContinue reading “Goals”

I just watched Hillary’s documentary and I couldn’t help but reflect on a few things. Her stance on feminism. I wish her PR team did way more to make her the voice and face of feminism. It could have done way more to help her cause and become president. How similar she and I are.Continue reading “Hillary Clinton”

I always thought I was an independent female of sound mind and sound reason. However it has come to my attention how much you can depend on one person. Mind you, this person is my life partner. My partner has gone off to another province to work and I broke the truck. Okay, okay, IContinue reading “Independent… or Stubborn?”

As Christmas season is approaching, I can’t help but reflect on a comment someone once said to me, “X gave me a gift. But it wasn’t what I wanted. Do they even know me?” I always thought, the fact that they thought about you and gifted you something, should means something no? Isn’t it theContinue reading “It’s the Thought That Counts, no?”

Growing up, I have only cut one person out of my life. This person was extremely toxic. I had to for my own sanity. 5 years later, this person showed repentance and I was wary but re-accepted them back into my life. As such, I do believe I should be punished for my actions no?Continue reading “History Repeats Itself”

When I first saw Jax play her song, “Like My Father,” I bawled. It described me so perfectly. I once told my hubby, I want a man like my dad. My dad worked half days Fridays. He would come home, cook and clean and buy flowers for my mom. That to me was love. IContinue reading “Jax: Like My Father”